As a young adult, your life is likely changing at a rapid pace. You’re trying to find your way, whether you’ve completed college, are in college, or perhaps are working in a career. You have your own friends, maybe your own place, and lots of ideas for the future. To unwind or have fun or ease anxiety, you may use alcohol and experiment with drugs.
It’s important to realize that addiction can develop even in those who believe they can control how much they are using. Some people find themselves seeking out the substance on a constant basis, even needing to use it to get through the day. Coming to the realization that you’ve developed a substance use disorder isn’t easy, but when it becomes obvious to you, it’s time to get help. You may wonder the following:
It may seem impossible, but people do recover from addiction. Not only that, but they can go on to create successful lives. With support, it may be possible to get your life back on track and achieve your goals.
Every situation differs, but for many young adults, parental support is a first choice – parents can guide you in getting care, help pay for that care, and support you along the way. If your parents are likely to offer support and encouragement, certainly reach out to them.
But know that you don’t have to do so. If you have a history of abuse, neglect, or other trauma from your childhood or your parents may be using substances themselves, you can and should find support elsewhere and make your own needs a priority.
How can you talk to your parents, or any loved one, about your addiction? No matter who you decide to reach out to for help, find someone. This recovery process can be mentally and physically challenging. If there’s someone in your life willing and able to help you (even just providing emotional support), it will benefit you.
The question many people have, though, is how to ask for help. It’s difficult to reach out, especially if you don’t want to disappoint or otherwise hurt that individual. You may not want them to see your “weak side” or to have to deal with “your problem.” Yet, those who truly are worth talking to are not going to push you away. Here are some tips for starting that conversation.
In most cases, the person or people you confide in will have questions. Sometimes parents will be angry or hurt, but hopefully they will also recognize the courage it took for you to share with them.
When you find someone to help you, they may say, “What can I do?” What do you say then? That’s where some key decisions are made.
For many people, it means calling a treatment center, entering into detox, and starting a residential treatment program. You may need someone’s help doing this:
Beyond any doubt, it is one of the most important – but also one of the most difficult – decisions you will make in your lifetime to get into drug and alcohol treatment. With help, you can achieve healing.
Contact Victory Addiction Recovery Center now. Within a few weeks of treatment, your life could be much improved. Let our team in Lafayette, Louisiana, be there to listen and support you even if you don’t have anyone else in your corner. We are here for you now.